I really shouldn't have to go through all this with you, John, but I want to give you some basic information.
Forget links, messages, and all that crap. For a Facebook account, you need three things; a name, an email address, and a password. Yes, it's that simple, and it's no different to the BSF, or any other online forum or group.
Now, you say you are unable to "enter" Facebook? How are you trying to "enter"? As I said, you only need three things to create an account, and they are EXACTLY the same three things you need to log in to your account, so what are you missing?
I don't think it's your name, as you have managed to create two accounts under your name.
I don't think it's an email address, for the same reason as above.
Is it a password you're missing? If so, that is no issue, as all you have to do is follow the instructions on the login page where it asks you if you "forgot password".
Again, no need for links, messages, confusing correspondence, or any of that. One you are in Facebook, you can delete your account.